Do Mountaintop Experiences Really Change Us?

Bill Couchenour | Monday, February 27, 2012

Do you remember the times when a sense of accomplishment and clarity ushered in a rush of positive emotions? Mountaintop experiences form some of the highlights of our lives. And they are often transformational. So why do we still struggle when we come down from the summit?

I was looking at chapter 9 of the book of Mark where we find Jesus leading Peter, James and John up a “high mountain.” What happened next was supernatural. Jesus’ appearance was “transfigured” and “His clothes became dazzling white, whiter than anyone in the world could bleach them.” On top of that, the two icons of the Jewish faith, Elijah and Moses (long dead in human terms), appeared with Jesus and they had a conversation. It had to have been a powerful time in Jesus’ life.

I thought about that mountain top experience for Jesus relative to his struggles that came a short time later in Gethsemane. In chapter 14, Mark says Jesus was “deeply distressed and troubled.” Jesus himself said, “My soul is overwhelmed with sorrow to the point of death.” We can’t fully comprehend what happened for Jesus on that mountain but it is safe to say he was changed in some way. Yet that experience did not eliminate the grief that came from facing a gruesome death.

So, what does that say about mountaintop experiences? Simply this: They give us perspective. Summits give us an enhanced understanding of the lower regions so that when we return we think and act differently. But they do not change the realities of our lives. Our circumstances are not made better: we are!

“You cannot stay on the summit forever; you have to come down again. So why bother in the first place? Just this: What is above knows what is below, but what is below does not know what is above. One climbs, one sees. One descends, one sees no longer, but one has seen. There is an art of conducting oneself in the lower regions by the memory of what one saw higher up. When one can no longer see, one can at least still know.”
- Rene Daumal from Mount Analogue

Our mountaintop experiences DO change us (but not our circumstances).

What Do People On Facebook Say About Going To Church?

Bill Couchenour | Monday, February 20, 2012

I thought it was interesting that on the same day two different Facebook friends of mine added posts relating to going to church. One simply asked the question, “Why do you go to church?”

A) Some of the responses were what you might expect:
- “To learn, to worship, to be challenged and to see my great friends!”
- “Sometimes I go to church because I NEED to be there. Sometimes I go to church because someone else might NEED me to be there.”
- “I love fellowshipping with the saints”
- “to love.... and be loved...”

B) One struck me funny: “Because I’m the pastor” (Makes you wonder if there’s more behind that answer)

C) One reflected perhaps a tinge of obligation: “Because I am a Christian.”

D) Some waxed philosophical about going vs. being the church:
- “It's impossible to go to church”
- “it is much easier to go to church rather than be the church.”

E) And some concerned me:
- “When I go it's because I want to....but I don't go that much anymore.”
- “I still find (not going to church) pretty pleasurable and I haven't gone for at least 6 years.”

Why do you go to church…really?

Maybe it’s time for you to re-examine that question (especially if you’re the pastor). We all go through seasons of obligation for anything that’s meaningful (there is something to be said for faithfulness in the face of numbness). But, if you’re beyond a season of passion, it’s time to reclaim the source of passion. It’s easy to trample on the Gospel of grace by congratulating ourselves for our work in the church, as though salvation were up to what we accomplish. It’s easy to get wrapped up in the business of religion while the relationship with Jesus wanes. That’s the theme behind the popular video, “Why I Hate Religion, But Love Jesus”. Does he get it right?

Embrace Jesus… better yet, allow Jesus to embrace you. Let your passion flow out of the gratitude for what Jesus has done, and connect again with the ministry of the church to dispense God’s grace and disciple those around us.

Get back to the passion!




5 Key Questions for Young Leaders

Bill Couchenour | Monday, February 13, 2012



If you’re a young leader or have the privilege of mentoring young leaders:

Max De Pree offers some valuable reflections in the introduction to the 2008 edition of his book, Leadership Jazz, that can be particularly insightful for you. Among these reflections you will find 5 piercing questions that cut to the heart of your leadership:

1) Who do you intend to be?

2) Do you believe belief precedes behavior?

3) Who gives you health?

4) What do you, as a leader, owe?

5) What may you keep?


Leadership flows out of being. This seems counterintuitive, especially to a young leader. After all, the leader’s actions are often in the spotlight and leaders are ultimately judged by their results. But results are the tip of the iceberg with the substance below the surface. The answers to these questions expose values, motivations, and world view – everything that guides your decision making and relationships. Think through them carefully and, though the answers will likely evolve over time, answer them intentionally. They are your future. Remember: don’t construct a being from your doing; let your doing flow from your being.

In 1911 two teams raced for the South Pole. One became the first in modern history to make it - the other perished. Jim Collins in his book, Great By Choice, describes the philosophy of the winner (the same philosophy they found in “10X” companies):

"You don’t wait until you’re in an unexpected storm to discover you need more strength and endurance…You prepare with intensity, all the time, so that when conditions turn against you, you can draw from a deep reservoir of strength. And equally, you prepare so that when conditions turn in your favor, you can strike hard."


Inside the State of the US Church (and what you can do about it)

Bill Couchenour | Monday, February 06, 2012

Warren Bird, the Director of Research and Intellectual Capital for Leadership Network, recently published a blog, Awe-Inspiring: Innovative Leaders Encouraged by How God is Movingcommenting on the 104 interviews he conducted in 2011 with “influential” churches across the US. His summary comment coming away from those interviews was energizing:

“I was so amazed by what God was doing in their midst, I wanted to be part of every one of them…There is a genuine sense of wonder, excitement and encouragement about how God is moving—despite tough economies and challenging jobless rates.”

Those were churches that had been identified as “influential” before the interviews. What would we find if we took a cross section of all US churches? We get some indication from research, What People Experience in Churchesreported by the Barna Group in January of this year.

Some of what they found is encouraging:
- “Most people (66%) feel they have had ‘a real and personal connection’ with God while attending church.”


- “…one-quarter of Americans (26%) who had been to a church before said that their life had been changed or affected ‘greatly’ by attending church. 

- “…nearly seven out of 10 respondents (68%) said when they attend church they feel ‘part of a group of people who are united in their beliefs and who take care of each other in practical ways.’”

- “…many churchgoers receive a diverse and rich set of inputs by being involved in a church…most notably connecting with God and others.”

Some of what they found is concerning:
- “…one-third of those who have attended a church in the past have never felt God’s presence while in a congregational setting.”

- “Nearly half said their life had not changed at all as a result of churchgoing (46%).”

What can you do to help your church grow?

The Barna Group noted from the research that the “church experiences do not differ all that much based on the size of the church” so we all have the opportunity to make changes. Here are 3 handles from additional research outlined by Warren in “Growth Edges for Your Church” :

1) “New congregations are more likely to grow than are those with a longer history.” – Studies continue to show that the vast majority of church growth comes from churches started in the prior two decades. That makes sense because they would be in the Growth and Maturity stages of the lifecycle “S” (Sigmoid) Curve. If your church is older than two decades, you may need a bold vision birthed by clear strategic thinking and ignited thorough communication.
2) “Youth is a key factor. Congregations in which people over 50 make up 30 percent or less of the active participants are most likely to have growth.” – That strategic thinking needs to include a demographic and psychographic analysis of the people God has called you to reach. If there is a disparity, you should consider steps that will lead to a demographic profile that reflects your ministry focus in terms of age, ethnicity, socioeconomically, etc.
3) “A clear sense of mission and purpose is ‘one of the strongest correlates of growth.’" – During the recession it was consistently reported that one of the common denominators of the churches that were doing well was that they had a clear and compelling vision. In fact, regardless of where you are on the S Curve, this is the place to start!
 



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